Introduction
Words can leave a mark for years. Verbal bullying includes name-calling, mockery about looks or accent, and threats. It is often dismissed as 'banter' - but the victims carry real emotional scars.
Signs
- Your child becomes quiet or quick to anger after school.
- They avoid mentioning certain names at home.
- They start doubting their looks, abilities, or identity.
- They suddenly refuse a particular class or activity.
What you can do
- Listen without judgement - let them tell it at their own pace.
- Note: dates, exact words used, who else was around.
- Practise short comebacks: "That's not true," then walk away.
- Take notes to the teacher or school counsellor.
- If it repeats, file a report on HeroFriends.
When to get help
If mockery touches religion, race, or identity - or you see signs of depression / anxiety - get counsellor support. Call 15999 for the children's support line.
After you read
If you or someone you care about is going through this, you can file a confidential report. Every report is handled by trained HeroFriends officers under the Anti-Bullying Act 2026.
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